Heartfelt Transformations

I receive many touching heart felt emails. I received one today from India and I want to share my answer with a larger audience today. This answer echos a few other posts I recently made.

Here are two common themes within mid life transformation.

First Common Truth:

A person in midlife transformation will feel isolated and alone.

The reason for this feeling of being isolated, alone: is that the mid life transformation is often the first time a person is "truly" and fully connected to themselves. But more importantly it's within a new awareness of what life means in personal terms.

This is a very very overpowering place to be.

Know when feeling in this manner.

You are not alone, many are experiencing the very same process and that countless others are in the same place you are.

Guides who teach from your heart rather than from some outside truth exist. But for each true guide, hundreds of other guides pushing "outside truths" also abound. The trouble when chasing outside truth is that people end up going many different religions or spiritual paths that makes this all the more confusing of a process. Discover that outside truth will not fully answer questions regarding personal truth.

• But it is OK to be "Alone" since this process is all about coming to terms with personal truth.

The Second Common Truth

The people who come to me, also often have a deep desire to reach out , to aid others and help people who are down in their luck. (this is also one of the reasons so many people are trying to help you with their "One" outside truth as I stated earlier)

But here is the secret that must be embraced:

No matter how many other people you are kind to, no matter how many people you might save or help discover "harmony" you will never discover balance, never resolve out your midlife transformation

• Until you balance it out by being kind to yourself in even terms.

So to seekers in Transformation I also make sure they discover this before they go out to help others

A simple truth of:

• Be kind to yourself also.

Namaste